Comment Of The Day: I’m Lazy And An Embarrassment

From: Yvette Marie Gaudreau

I’ve been meaning to unlike you. just so you know why it has to do w/ your apology letter to sahm’s. I found you to be lazy and an embarrassment as to what a father figure should be. that timeline of your day was disgusting and the only sahm’s that appreciated it were the lazy ones who also do not raise their children but enjoy staying home doing nothing while the children raise themselves. so many parenting failures in that blog. If I were working and my husband told me that was his day I would leave him. how incompetent does one have to be. the hardest part about raising children is undoing the influence of other ppl. I was a sahm and a working mom. my home was always clean, my children well mannered and polite. I don’t think they knew what a temper tantrum was but then I’m not prone to them and I did my job the way it was supposed to be done. not trying to offend but really you need to get it together. you do not cave into temper tantrums. consistency is the key is w/ children. they follow your lead. you are clean, they will be clean. you do right, they will do right. I have unliked this page already so no need for all the outraged sahm’s who so loved that apology letter to come to your defense. I won’t be reading the comments. take care. hoping for the best for you

 

Dearest Yvette,

May the wind always be at your back and the sun upon your face.

 

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23 comments
Amber Yount Benge
Amber Yount Benge

Wait... Did that come from The Onion? It must be sattire.... Surely no one is that self righteous. Smh

Jeweliette Lily Allende
Jeweliette Lily Allende

As someone who's not a parent, but a babysitter, this woman can keep dreaming because kids are not easy to work with and you can't correct them at every turn, you need to pick your battles. Also, as a child of a sahm who was very much like you, I think I turned out just fine. I mean, I have my issues with authority and my other problems, but I still have an idea of how the world seems to work and how to live life to the fullest, along with being a decent human being. And everyone has temper tantrums. I'm almost 20 and I still do! Hell, my mom still had them, and she was 51 when she passed! You can't force someone to be perfect for very long. Eventually that whole facade will shatter and they will see their true colors. This woman reminds me of Bre Vandecamp off of Desperate Housewives... No wonder she sounds so crazy..

Aliza Marie
Aliza Marie

What planet does she live on?! She says her house was kept clean, children were polite and well mannered, but every child is different, every parent is different!!! I don't believe she is as perfect as she claims to be nor are her children. You are a great Dad! There is NOTHING wrong with a man staying home to help raise his children. Actually, I wish I had a man like you in my life, who will share the responsibility of the house and children. I would never let you go! Haha You're wife is so extremely lucky to have you! KEEP BEING AWESOME!

William Allen
William Allen

Did anyone check out her Facebook profile that he linked? I seriously doubt she all her shit together either.

Jennifer Lohmann
Jennifer Lohmann

What a crazy bitch! I have great kids and are constantly praised on how well they are disciplined and how polite they are. But all kids have temper tantrums... So do adults... Pretty sure I just read one from Ivette. BTW Ivette- I'm not. SAHM and my kids are still pretty great kids. Get a hobby that doesn't include insulting hundreds of people. Its not us honey it's you.

Mande Kay Sumner
Mande Kay Sumner

Goodness gracious! Bless her heart! I'm a southern gal, that's all I can say about this one!

Lana Bingle Yoho
Lana Bingle Yoho

Well...It's unfortunate we can't all be as perfect as her.

Stacey Perry
Stacey Perry

Ok super mom go on with your bad self living in your fantasy world and take your bs with you !! I'm sure your so far from the " perfect" mom you portray yourself to be and bless your kids they will even more judge mental than what you are so sad ;(

Ivy Jones
Ivy Jones

Did this witch just call me lazy????? Because I liked your page BECAUSE OF THAT LETTER! Look here lady, I Homeschool my five year old while taking care of an infant. Furthermore I am a goddess in the kitchen. I can cook anything anyone wants! But yes, about three days a week, I am too exhausted to have a spotless house and often tell my husband to fend for his self for dinner and feed my daughter chicken nuggets. I'm not lazy! And my friend liked that letter. She has four kids and watches her sister's kid during the day. She lazy too?

Liesa Ellsworth
Liesa Ellsworth

This poor woman was just born too early!!! I think she belongs in a futuristic, post apocalypse world where everybody is a clone of each other's robotic selves!!

Sabra Leigh Mars
Sabra Leigh Mars

Her comment, I find, is quite disturbing to be frank... granted everyone is entitled to their own opinions! I am a sahm, and I work my butt off all day with cooking and cleaning and still by the end of the day I manage to look around and still find a mess as my two year old has come behind to unclean...reality is I Clean a lot...so much so that people call me anal or say that's all I do...my son rarely has a tantrum but he is still two and children make messes!!! They are curious, they get into things, that's how they discover the world they live in!!! So unless her children are statues or are forced to sit in one area all day, I call b.s.!! Obviously she is one of those whom aren't happy with her life nor her self or she wouldn't feel the need to bash on you and the way you are doing raising your children!! In reality the only people's opinions that matter in that circumstance are your own and your wife's!!

Andrea McClanaghan
Andrea McClanaghan

I love her statement about not being "prone" to temper tantrums, when I think that's exactly what her comment was. I apparently was a horrible (capital letters, bold and italicized font, and extra sarcasm included) SAHM/parent, as Daddy Fishkins your days were a lot like mine. My house wasn't always clean, my kids had temper tantrums, I had them (really, we all still do), my husband came home to cook dinner and do laundry, I barely got "everything" (cross that out and put "anything") done before my husband got home. They might not be bathed everyday, but are clean - even if the underwear and socks aren't, but my kids were happy, polite, well-mannered children. They might (just italicized here) not be the "greatest" at home, but they are in public and to others. They may have had chicken nuggets thousands of times for breakfast, lunch and possibly dinner all in the same day because it was the only thing they'd eat. I couldn't and didn't do it all, and anyone who CAN do it all in one day, while not criticizing others and staying sane, probably isn't.

Jenna Kahrmann
Jenna Kahrmann

Oh goodness. I.bet her kids will be a.judgmental as she is. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. Just hit unlike, no need to justify it. Daddy fishkins has plenty of positive supporters, no need to worry about the negative ones.

Gretchen Schulze Carnoske
Gretchen Schulze Carnoske

Wow! Wonder how much therapy her kids are going to do to recover from having to be perfect 24/7...

Viola Florez Riggs
Viola Florez Riggs

Wow, what a perfect stepford home wife and children they are. No one and I mean no one is that perfect. I guarantee you and babies her kids made messes as everyone's did. I have 6 and they come in all forms and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Ariana Ashley Newbourn
Ariana Ashley Newbourn

Lol! Just because her kids are the perfect children, doesn't mean everyone's are like that. Kids are kids no matter what as long as they are loved they will be fine in the world.

Emily Daniels
Emily Daniels

I have three words for you, lady, frigid and unlikable. Daddy Fishkins, you are awesome and so funny! Keep it up.

Erica Barbo
Erica Barbo

wow lol what a super mom! she must not realize ppl are diffrent and ppl handle things diffrently and every kid is diffrent!.i garentee she's not as perfect as she makes herself out to be an niether are her kids. noone is perfect.sometimes we just need that moments break from the screaming and crying that,yes we give in to tantrums.why is that being made into such a crime? stuff happens.we cant all be "perfect" all the time!

Becca Grinstead
Becca Grinstead

She can't even punctuate and capitalize correctly. I assume we can expect the same from her children? ;-)

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